Parent's Corner -Hello Super Human

Connect & Grow Magazine: Issue 19 April 2025

Did you know that when you, yes you, walk into a room, your child’s behaviour statistically declines by 800 percent? Yep. Teachers, coaches, and other parents all marvel at how well-behaved your child is, until you show up. Then suddenly, they forget how to follow instructions, they need water right now, and they collapse onto the floor like their legs stopped working. And the reason? Because you are their safe place. You love them so hard that they know they can be their truest, messiest, most dramatic selves with you. Fabulous, right?

But wait, there’s more. If you’re a parent of two kids, congratulations, you’re now the proud owner of three entire months of your year spent simply figuring out the logistics of their lives. That’s right. THREE MONTHS dedicated to tracking sports schedules, school events, uniform changes, class WhatsApp updates, and last-minute birthday party invites. You know, all the essential “What’s up?” chaos that keeps our world spinning.

And let’s talk about those moments when we think we’re absolutely nailing it. Like the time I confidently assumed my child’s violin lessons were just a couple of pre-class assessments. Turns out, they had been happening every single Wednesday morning for two whole months. Who’s on fire? This mum.

But here’s the thing: It’s okay. So, he missed a few sessions before I figured it out. Did he survive? Yes. Did I use this as an excellent opportunity for his personal growth? Also, yes. because last week, he was the one who reminded me about his early morning class. Look at that—life lessons in action.

So before you start spiralling over the million things on your plate, could you do something for me?

Take your hand—yes, your hand and give yourself a damn pat on the back. Because you, your girlfriend/boyfriend, are out here doing the best you can with what you have. And that? That is superhuman.

As we wrap up Term One (where we finally figured out our kids’ schedules), let’s all take a deep breath. Because we both know Term Two will bring new activities, more things to forget, and fresh opportunities to keep doing our best. And that, my friend, is more than enough.

So much love for you. You Matter! Keep showing up, laughing, and reminding yourself that you’re doing an incredible job.

YouMatterMama

Written by

Julie Mundy

You can connect with Julie here:

www.youmattermama.com.au

#YouMatterMama

Disclaimer: All information is accurate at the time of publication and is subject to change